Instead of doing whatever it takes to make the person far from God feel safe and able to come into your church; we often ask them to fit into the mold of perfection, tradition and religion. That's not the Gospel and that's not what Jesus did!
This is what Jesus did in verse 50...."He ignored them and said to the woman, "Your faith has saved you. Go in peace."
He NEVER called us to cater to or worry about the personal preferences of saved people! No where in the Bible did Jesus give time or energy to that endeavor.
Keep your eyes and your heart set on helping people far from God discover life in Jesus! And, ignore the critics....Besides, they've made it all about themselves and not about Jesus!